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Counselling

If you have experienced any kind of sexual abuse, or are confused about a sexual experience it may be helpful to talk about it to someone who understands.


Counselling provides a safe space where you can talk freely and openly in a way that is not often possible with friends or family.

There is currently a waiting list operating for our counselling service.

Information about Counselling

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Counselling at Survivors Network provides a space for survivors of sexual abuse or violence to talk about feelings and to feel support after a traumatic experience. It is about helping you to develop insights into your problems and finding your own resources and strengths. We seek to help you to make your own choices and decisions.

Counselling is always your choice and no one can be ‘sent’ for counselling. A referral from a professional supporting you can be made on your behalf, with your consent.

Our service is confidential. Your contact details are kept securely and are not available to anyone other than Survivors Network staff.

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When you first contact Survivors’ Network your name will be added to our waiting list, and once your name reaches the top, we will contact you to arrange an exploratory session.

This is an opportunity for you to talk about what is concerning you and for us to answer any questions you may have.

We then decide together whether counselling can meet your needs at this time, and if it can, you will be allocated a counsellor and they will contact you to arrange a first session.

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Our counselling service is available to self-identifying women aged 14 upwards and young people of any gender aged between 14-18 years old.

We offer 24 sessions to survivors and 10 sessions to people supporting survivors.

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Our counselling is free for people aged between 14 and 18 years old.

If you are 19 years or over you will be asked to make a donation for counselling based on what you are able to afford. We will never price someone out of the support that they need.

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We welcome people with disabilities to use our service. Please get in touch with us if you have any access or communication needs and we will seek to accommodate these. Although our building is an old one, and there is not a lift to the main counselling rooms, we can arrange for the use of a ground floor room in another building that is private and accessible. Our building does not currently have hearing loops fitted. If you have any concerns about being able to access our office, please do get in touch.

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We aim to provide you with the opportunity to explore whatever issues you want to, in a space that is safe where you can feel accepted and supported. Part of creating this space relies on you being able to trust that whatever you talk about will be treated with sensitivity, respect and confidentiality. All counsellors have regular supervision from an independent supervisor – this is also a confidential relationship.

In certain circumstances a counsellor may feel a client is at risk of harming themselves or someone else, in which case they will discuss with you the best way to help you. This may in very rare cases mean contacting your GP or other medical advisor, and/or the Therapeutic Services Coordinator, but if possible, your counsellor will always discuss this with you first and would encourage you to participate in any further action taken.

Below is a list of concerns that we are legally bound to breach confidentiality on. If possible, we only do this with your knowledge. Only in an extreme emergency would any action be taken without your consent.

  • Where there are concerns about a child’s safety.
  • If your counsellor is concerned that you may endanger your
    own, or another person’s life.
  • If we are ordered by a court of Law to breach confidentiality.
  • If we gain knowledge of an act of terrorism.
  • If both parties are in agreement that confidentiality can be
    broken in a particular instance.

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If you have an open police case, or are considering reporting this to the police, we will follow a pre-trial protocol. This means that there will be limitations to the confidentiality that we can offer in order to protect you in the event of any investigation or court case. If you would like further information about this, please contact the counselling team.

We have lots of resources designed to support you with a range of topics, including a comprehensive self-help guide.